Umrah is one of the most satisfying and pleasing acts that a Muslim does in his/her life to get closer to Allah SWT. It is important that during the Umrah, certain conducts are observed to ensure that one avoids actions that can invalidate or diminish the rewards of this blessed pilgrimage. In this article, we will go through the seven mistakes that should not be made during Umrah so that the pilgrimage will be acceptable to Allah SWT.
1. Neglecting Proper Intention (Niyyah)
The primary objective should always be to perform Umrah to gain the pleasure of Allah SWT. If your intention is not sincere, this could affect the whole pilgrimage process. When in a state of Ihram, make sure your heart is focused on attaining the mercy of Allah. If some form of distraction taints the intentions, then this can minimize the spiritual gains made during the journey.
The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said:
The deeds are considered by the intentions, and a person will get the reward according to his intention. – [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]
2. Violating the Rules of Ihram
The state of Ihram is a sacred condition that pilgrims enter before performing Umrah or Hajj. It represents purity, humility, and a commitment to Allah (SWT). Breaking the rules of Ihram can invalidate the pilgrimage or necessitate expiatory actions, such as Fidyah. Clarify with a reliable source, such as a mufti or an experienced pilgrim, if you are unsure about any aspect of the Ihram process. Pilgrims must avoid certain actions during this state, such as:
- Wearing prohibited clothing: For men, stitched or fitted garments like shirts, pants, or underwear are not allowed; they must wear two unstitched white clothes.
- Engaging in Intimacy: Any form of sexual activity, including flirting or suggestive behavior with one’s spouse, is strictly prohibited.
- Using harsh language: Maintaining a peaceful demeanor is essential.
- Applying fragrances
Allah says in the Quran 2:197
Whoever commits to ˹performing˺ pilgrimage, let them stay away from intimate relations, foul language, and arguments during pilgrimage.
3. Overcrowding & Pushing During Tawaf
It is quite common to face overcrowding and pushing while performing Tawaf. In such situations, one must remain as cool as a cucumber and not get frustrated. Islam encourages us and teaches us to be polite to other people, so pilgrims should try to do Tawaf as a form of worship without much focus on the people around them. Pilgrims witness overwhelming crowds when performing Umrah in Ramzan. So you need to be mentally and physically prepared if you wish to go in the month of Ramzan.
The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said:
“O Umar, you are a strong man. Do not crowd at the Black Stone, for you may harm the weak. If you find a space, then touch it; otherwise, merely point to it and say Allahu Akbar” – Musnad Ahmad, Hadith 188.
4. Disregarding Salah Times During Umrah Rituals
Neglecting Salah (prayer) times during Umrah rituals can significantly reduce the spiritual rewards of the pilgrimage. Some pilgrims may become overly focused on completing the rituals and fail to notice the obligatory prayers. Salah is fundamental to a Muslim’s faith and should always come first, even during Umrah. Pilgrims need to organize their rituals around Salah times, taking breaks for congregational prayer before continuing their worship, thus maintaining a balance between the pillars of Islam and the rituals of the pilgrimage.
Indeed, performing prayers is a duty on the believers at the appointed times – Quran 4:103
5. Focusing Solely on Rituals and Ignoring Duas
Focusing solely on the rituals of Umrah and neglecting the importance of making duas (supplications) can reduce the spiritual benefits of the pilgrimage. Although engaging in physical acts of worship, such as Tawaf, Sa’i, and prayers, is crucial, the essence of Umrah is found in genuine communication with Allah (SWT) through Duas. These personal prayers provide pilgrims with the chance to seek forgiveness and ask for guidance. Ignoring the importance of Dua can cause one to miss out on the deeper, transformative aspects of the journey.
6. Neglecting The Rights of Fellow Pilgrims
Not respecting the rights of fellow pilgrims is a serious concern during Umrah, as it can disrupt the peaceful environment that is required during worship. Islam is a religion that promotes courtesy, humility, and patience in dealing with other people. Pilgrims should not engage in activities that may include pushing or being aggressive. Rather, they should be sympathetic and assist those who need help.
The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said:
The Muslim is the one from whose tongue and hand the people are safe, and the believer is the one from whom the people’s lives and wealth are safe. – Sunan an-Nasa’i 4995
7. Missing the Opportunity for Deeper Reflection
Umrah is an amazing opportunity for Muslims to get a new start in life and to get closer to Allah SWT. Sadly, nowadays we see some people are too busy taking photos to share on social networks or engaging in pointless discussions. It is highly recommended that Pilgrims avoid such activities and focus on building a strong connection with Allah (SWT), seeking forgiveness, and getting busy reciting Duas more often.
Final Thoughts
Do remember that performing Umrah is a sacred and transformative experience that has a lot of benefits. It is vital to note that Umrah is not only the process of doing the rituals but also the process of washing your soul, asking for forgiveness, and getting closer to Allah (SWT). Therefore, it is important to ensure that one does not make the following seven mistakes during the Umrah.
